Nurturing Your Relationship with God: 3 Practices

Introduction


Let’s face it: life can get crazy. Between school, work, friendships, and everything in between, it’s easy to let our spiritual life slip down the priority list. But, here’s the deal—taking just a few minutes every day to nurture your relationship with God doesn’t have to be a daunting task. Trust me, it doesn’t even require a fancy ritual or a whole bunch of candles (unless you’re into that vibe).

1. Start Your Day with a Little Faith Boost (aka, Prayer)


You know that feeling when you wake up and the last thing you want to do is get out of bed? Same. But one thing that’s made a huge difference for me is starting the day with a little prayer. It doesn’t have to be long or complicated. I keep it short and sweet—like, “Hey God, help me get through this day without losing my mind.” Sometimes I’ll even add a quick “thank you” for the simple things, like coffee (because, let’s be honest, we all need it).

I used to think prayers needed to be super formal. I’d be like, “How am I supposed to talk to God like He’s a friend?” Then, one morning I was in the middle of stressing over a big presentation, and I just said, “God, I need you to come through today. Seriously.” It was then I realized—God listens even to the smallest, most honest conversations. I felt a sense of peace wash over me that day that made everything a little easier.

2. Dive Into Scripture (But Don’t Stress About Reading the Whole Bible in a Week)


Okay, real talk: I know some people can read 3 chapters of the Bible every day and be like, “I’m so enlightened, I can solve all the world’s problems.” And while I admire that, let’s be real. If you’re like me, you probably won’t remember half of what you read, or even get through all of it. But don’t let that stop you! Find one verse, reflect on it, and let it sink into your soul.


I started small—one verse a day, just to keep myself grounded. There was this one verse I kept coming back to: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God” (Philippians 4:6). On days when I felt anxious about school, work, or life, that verse would pop up and help calm me down. And guess what? It worked.

3. Talk About Your Faith (Like, For Real)


Sometimes we get so caught up in the hustle and bustle that we forget we’re not in this alone. Share your thoughts, doubts, and breakthroughs with friends who “get it.” Sometimes faith can feel like a personal journey, but it’s also a communal one. Letting others in on what you’re struggling with or celebrating can deepen your connection with God and others. It’s like a spiritual accountability squad.

Conclusion


So, whether you’re praying on your commute, reflecting on a verse during lunch, or just taking a moment of stillness before bed, remember that nurturing your relationship with God doesn’t have to be complicated. Small, consistent practices go a long way. And if you ever feel like you’re not “doing it right,” just remember: it’s all about progress, not perfection. God’s got your back—always.